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The Truth About "Natural" Healing
-- Ten Things You Should Know
7. Is It Enough? --
Growing Up REALLY Drug Free - A True Story
When people say or hear "drug free", almost no one thinks of being
COMPLETELY drug free. Few would even want to; and, obviously, such a
way of life is NOT for everybody. But the following true story was
contributed by a person who HAS been completely drug free for WELL
over half a century, and is living proof of what CAN be done if you
come to understand the workings and needs of the human body and try to
exercise good judgement (not jumping on every fad that comes along)
----as well as some of the social consequences you should be prepared
for should you even consider such a decision.
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The Truth About "Natural" Healing -- Ten Things You Should Know,
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not mean much to you without it ---unless, of course, you've had
very similar experiences.
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I grew up with three non-medical health care professionals.
My father and both grandfathers. They were Chiropractors.
They didn't just "crunch bones" or "crack joints" as is the common
misconception. My dad and my maternal grandfather particularly were
very interested in nutritional and other biological therapies (which
nowadays would most likely be classified as naturopathic) that
affected things like body chemistry and metabolism, including acid
and alkaline balance and elimination of toxic byproducts ---as well
as educating their patients in simple natural things they could do
for themselves to promote healing and good health.
By the time I entered grade school, we had a close but ever widening
circle of friends with whom we shared a rather unique set of values
and by whom we felt very loved. Except - - - when health care came
up. We learned early on not to bring it up. After all, health care
was not our religion, and certainly not a religious crusade. We
felt doctors should be available, but not some kind of activists
campaigning for a cause. But some of these friends had very strong
feelings about traditional "western" health care, so it would
eventually come up anyway. To them, Medicine was the only true,
serious and complete health care, and being different was a "mortal
sin" or something. So even though we were very careful not to offer
unsolicited health advice (extremely hesitant even when asked) much
less try to tell others how to make their health care decisions,
plenty of folks were ready and willing to pass negative
pre-judgement on our non-medical choices anytime they became public
knowledge. They usually didn't even when we were asked. We learned
to give very vague and evasive answers. They really were the best of
friends in every other way, so we did everything we could to try to
keep peace. At times though I felt I really didn't "belong" but was
just an intruding stranger being politely tolerated; and soon
decided not to make a career of it, but to pursue what I hoped would
be a more peaceful and productive life.
It was bad enough that in some States of the U.S. at the time,
Chiropractors were still fighting court battles to be recognized and
licensed as health care professionals ---and over false charges from
you-can-guess-who of "practicing medicine without a license". It's
a NON-MEDICAL healing profession, remember; so NO FORM of MEDICAL
treatment was ever used. The charge was obviously just a fabricated
excuse to restrain the "competition".
This gross intolerance, along with misleading information others
would relate being given by their MEDICAL doctors, made me
determined to take charge of my own health (good or ill) according
to what I had learned growing up. Naturally, I received all the
education Dad gave all his patients put together ---many times over.
Talk about growing up drug free! - - - I've never even had so much
as an aspirin. Not because I've never had pain. I was always more
concerned with the CAUSE than the pain itself. Pain is our body's
warning system to keep us from injuring ourselves worse. And I was
about as willing to suppress that as any rational person would be to
remove the batteries from all the smoke alarms and carbon monoxide
detectors in the house.
Don't get me wrong. I don't hate any medical doctors personally.
Most of the few I've met were quite likable individuals. But after
what our family had learned from many patients' MEDICAL experiences
and from the "confidential" Medical newsletters (similar to this Journal of the American
Medical Association article ) Dad and Grandad would
inadvertently receive as a result of having "Dr." in front of their
names, I began to see Medicine's APPROACH to illness as seriously
flawed, and it's SYSTEM as greedy and less than completely honest
(for lack of a "nice" more-accurate description ---I'm trying to
remain "civil" about this). Of course, no human institution is
incorruptible; but I decided I did NOT want omnipotent "mainstream
Medicine" getting their hands on me UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. That
decision may not sound very rational to you, but a lot of careful
thought preceded it and I'm convinced I've had superior health care
for my personal needs for well over a century. ---If only I didn't
have to defend personal health care choices that are actually safer
AND MORE EFFECTIVE in the long term (not to mention being nobody
else's business)! Or feel like I'm "walking on eggs" to keep from
having to! (Scrambled eggs, anyone?)
I didn't have to for a time. In my youthful wanderings I stumbled
upon a rather unique little sub-culture among the otherwise same
kind of friends in an area that drew people from many varied
backgrounds, cultures and places. As a result, almost everybody was
different from nearly everyone else but seldom did anybody even seem
to notice. Even when they did, friends like these didn't have to
understand everything to be understanding. It was truly refreshing.
But in the years since then I have finally realized, especially
after becoming the 24-hour-7-day-a-week caregiver for my
last-surviving elderly invalid parent who had put these same
totally non-medical health care choices in writing in a DPA (Durable
Power of Attorney for Health Care) form before becoming completely
disabled--- that down deep very little has really changed in western
society. All the "natural" and "organic" advertising and all the
"complementary" and "alternative medicine" hype not withstanding.
Naturally all these friends wanted to help, and those who could
(including a few medical professionals) seemed exceptionally
flexible and non-opinionated. But it only takes one or two
authoritarian latecomers who assume they understand completely, but
actually comprehend nothing of the patient's LEGALLY SIGNED AND
WITNESSED INSTRUCTIONS (yet feel very strongly "duty bound" to set
things "right" in their uninformed view ---medically, of course) to
strike panic in the hearts of misinformed-but-easily-intimidated
ones.
As I write this my "patient" has not even had visitors in months
and, of course, I no longer feel the refuge here I did in the past.
But even worse, to see my dear friends so intimidated by such a
powerful totalitarian system as to render some of them (even if
unwittingly and unintentionally) too oblivious and intolerant to be
capable of truly listening with genuine understanding to any other
concept of life and health has to be one of the saddest, most
despicable things I have ever personally witnessed.
--- Contributed (anonymous)
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